I just found out someone I dated in Highschool (and subsequently have not seen in 5 or 6 years) is now gay. Thats not the part that mankes me uneasy. Sexual orientation is a personal choice that i respect and have no issue with. Heres the part that makes me uneasy... While we were in highschool (a couple years after we dated) he was known to pick on and be mean to openly gay students. Im guessing now it was his way of dealing with his own emotions and feelings its just a weird concept for me.